*pets* I understand love. Maybe it comes more naturally to women because we're trained to think about our wedding since we're little girls. I don't know.

I just think it would be a lot easier for you if you focused less on the "OMG MY WEDDING" part and more on the "big party with lots of friends"; it seems easier to plan for the second than the first.

Also, how formal were you thinking on going? The whole "wedding reception" with the gauze and bows and ice sculptures or much more of the informal big happy party route?