It's good that you're not. As to what to do next... Take a little bit of space for yourself. Distance yourself from the computer for a while and do something you enjoy, like running or going to the cinema or something. And then come back and tell him that your feelings are hurt but not so badly that you don't want to talk to him, and that you missed him, and then go from there.
I know putting your heart on the line and getting hurt once feels like it's more than enough, but sometimes it isn't. Sometimes you have to just be prepared to keep at it for a while. I know it's hard, but it can be worth it, in the end, and even if you don't get what you want, you always learn something that will stand to you later. And when you do...
I was, and I know you would. That's my point. It would only be using him if you weren't prepared to do the same.
I do, and I'll call you when I'm in the area. I want to sign off here with something platitudinous and inspiring, but I can't quite thing of anything. If I can help in any way or you want to talk about it (or anything else) at all, ever, I'm available to you, all right?
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It's good that you're not. As to what to do next... Take a little bit of space for yourself. Distance yourself from the computer for a while and do something you enjoy, like running or going to the cinema or something. And then come back and tell him that your feelings are hurt but not so badly that you don't want to talk to him, and that you missed him, and then go from there.
I know putting your heart on the line and getting hurt once feels like it's more than enough, but sometimes it isn't. Sometimes you have to just be prepared to keep at it for a while. I know it's hard, but it can be worth it, in the end, and even if you don't get what you want, you always learn something that will stand to you later. And when you do...
I was, and I know you would. That's my point. It would only be using him if you weren't prepared to do the same.
I do, and I'll call you when I'm in the area. I want to sign off here with something platitudinous and inspiring, but I can't quite thing of anything. If I can help in any way or you want to talk about it (or anything else) at all, ever, I'm available to you, all right?