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likesthecoat) wrote2008-02-09 08:06 pm
likesthecoat) wrote2008-02-09 08:06 pm
still here.
[Filtered from Lorne, Sheppard]Lorne and I broke up last week. It's entirely my doing and my fault. There was no third party involved, just to be clear.
And it seems he's not doing much better with it than I am, so if people would be particularly kind to him, that would be a good thing.
Work continues as it always does, and I've been spending a lot of time there. I'm sure that surprises no one.
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Do you need anything right now love?
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*sighs* No. Not really. I kind of did something stupid last night but it's nothing I can't deal with.
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... do you want to talk about it?
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I had a one-night stand with a bloke I met last year. He's named himself my rebound guy.
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Oh wow. At least both of you aren't having any illusions on anything... *another hug*
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Okay. What happened was last year I pulled him in pub and there was alley sex, and I got together with Jack, like, two days later. If that. And then I ran into him again last week and we caught up, and I told him about Lorne and Jack and everything, and he gave me his number, and last night I called it and after the sex he asked if I had a new boyfriend picked out yet. I said no and he said, "Oh, my magic hasn't worked yet, has it."
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I find running into people you had one night stands with later always a bit funny... but, *sighs* I'm glad you are able to talk to someone. An unrelated third party could be useful.
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I haven't had very many so it's a bit . . . it's interesting.
It's nice having somebody who's completely objective, I suppose. Though I don't expect him to be my sounding board or anything. It was just nice to fuck somebody with no baggage.
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No... you don't really seem the type.
Yeah, someone just apart from all the shit and problems and everything. I'm sure the physicality was nice to have as well... I know that the nights can get lonely.
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Normally, I'm not. But sometimes . . .
Yeah, they can. That's been the problem, I suppose. And now I'm trying to figure out if I want to try dating, which is going to be next to impossible, or if I just want to be single for a while. Which I hate.
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Yeah, I understand. Uncomplicated is good.
Oh, you hate being single as well? I suppose we could start a club... I'm going to say something very trite here, but whatever you do, make sure you make time for yourself, yeah?
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Uncomplicated is just what I needed.
I do. I've been in relationships most of my adult life.
I make time for myself. I'm doing it right now.
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Then good, I'm glad you were able to find that.
And, really, I can't believe I'm saying this, but maybe some time down would be good? At least for knowing exactly what you do and don't want in other people. Some time to come down from everything?
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Thanks.
Down time from dating, you mean? I know exactly what I want. I want somebody here, that I can see and touch and talk to more than every few months.
Beyond that . . . a pulse.
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Not very picky... I'm sue that covers Cardiff and most of the surrounding areas.
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Rather the point. Maybe I'll even date a girl this time.
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I'm almost inclined to follow you with that as my own choice in bed partners have not exalty been the best choices of late...
Too bad I'm not more middle on the Kinnsey scale.
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*smiles* Slut.
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Oh, yes. Sex with three different people in a year. I'm a HUGE slut. I can't keep it in my pants. I HAVE TO HAVE IT AND I HAVE TO HAVE IT NOW!!! *slobbers*
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We can't all be decadent bisexuals, I'm afraid.
[ooc: *facepalms*]