Melodrama is what makes life interesting. Otherwise it's just drama, and nobody wants that.

I think the dangerous for your heart business is what I meant. Regardless of regs (and the Air Force has pretty strict rules for relationships, gay or straight), it's dangerous to get involved with people you work with. Especially your boss. It makes things awkward, even if they do work out. And if they don't...well then things get really awkward.