*laughs* They've been busy over on the other side of the pond. ;)

Okay well thats part down.

Do you want to have everyone at the temple for the blessing and then migrate to your house? Or would you like a small portion at the blessing and most people at the house waiting?

Flowers are good for decorations. I mean, ice sculptures and fountains and statues are used in a lot of weddings but that sort of thing is up to you. What time were you thinking of having the reception? Morning? Mid-day? Dusk? Evening?

Different decorations work well with different times (obviously).

I think its a good idea to go with the colours from the kilt. And well, I think you'd be dashing in a tux love, but that is just me.

What colours are Lorne's kilt?

And please tell me you will have two groomsmen on top of the cake.