I realise it is, but... Okay, I'm going to get up on my soap box here. The idea of the BIG OMG WEDDING is something that is perpetuated through the wedding industry. I'm not trying to say that for those that have to have it, going the nine yards is bad, I just don't think everyone should feel like they have to. It is exactly what I said it is, a party celebrating your union/love/commitment to each other and you can have it any way you want.

I plan on having a moon bounce at mine.

I think you should just do it like you guys. Don't worry about what you think you're supposed to do for a wedding. Do what you want. Whatever that is. If you don't want flowers, don't have them.

*massive hugs*