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It's different for me. I think it dpends on how you're wired, fundamentally. Some gay men have long-lasting relationships; some straight men never settle down. I don't really know what it is for me: I can be equally attracted to a man as to a woman and with the man it'll be, "Yum, let's go fuck" and for women it'll be, "Romance, romance, romance."

It's late. I've stopped making sense. Let's continue this later: I've got to get some sleep.