I don't think it's a matter of him wanting you as much as, I think it's a matter of you wanting him to want you in the same way as you. I think his attitude to people and romance and sex and life in general might be... Very different to yours. It's very obvious to me from even your interactions on here that he's attracted to you. And has affection for you. I don't think you're imagining that at all. What I don't know if it's anything more than that. If all you want is confirmation that he thinks fondly of you and finds you attractive, then I can tell you I'm quite sure that he does. But... Is that really all you want?
How much influence do you think you'd have about how it goes, and if it went the way you wanted it to, would things be able to go back to normal afterwards if you decided to leave it at that?
[Ah, I see. I forgot about that-- I don't watch a lot of British-made shows (only soaps, which don't have breaks) and I forgot about the no-breaks. We even get breaks that long between seasons of American series', but then they run them break-free and we usually end up with having the finale the same week as you guys.
He's listed (haha, I typoed 'lusted' three times XD) on IMDB as being in 3 eps of the new season (11, 12, 13) so... I guess he'll be gone for a lot of it, then. Poor Ianto. D:
Near knew he wasn't the relationship type...! *shakes fist in his general direction* Near likes Jack, and is actually rather intrigued by him, but he reminds him terribly of his ex, and Near is concerned that Ianto is a bit too sensitive to get involved with that sort of person in case he gets his heart broken....]
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I don't think it's a matter of him wanting you as much as, I think it's a matter of you wanting him to want you in the same way as you. I think his attitude to people and romance and sex and life in general might be... Very different to yours. It's very obvious to me from even your interactions on here that he's attracted to you. And has affection for you. I don't think you're imagining that at all. What I don't know if it's anything more than that. If all you want is confirmation that he thinks fondly of you and finds you attractive, then I can tell you I'm quite sure that he does. But... Is that really all you want?
How much influence do you think you'd have about how it goes, and if it went the way you wanted it to, would things be able to go back to normal afterwards if you decided to leave it at that?
[Ah, I see. I forgot about that-- I don't watch a lot of British-made shows (only soaps, which don't have breaks) and I forgot about the no-breaks. We even get breaks that long between seasons of American series', but then they run them break-free and we usually end up with having the finale the same week as you guys.
He's listed (haha, I typoed 'lusted' three times XD) on IMDB as being in 3 eps of the new season (11, 12, 13) so... I guess he'll be gone for a lot of it, then. Poor Ianto. D:
Near knew he wasn't the relationship type...! *shakes fist in his general direction* Near likes Jack, and is actually rather intrigued by him, but he reminds him terribly of his ex, and Near is concerned that Ianto is a bit too sensitive to get involved with that sort of person in case he gets his heart broken....]